Finding Glimmers: How Entrepreneurs can Reframe and Reset with Small Moments of Joy

Think about the last time you saw the sky turn brilliant orange as you caught an unexpected glimpse of the sunset. Or maybe you smelled fresh brewed coffee when you came in from a brisk walk. Or patted a furry friend contentedly. These are all examples of “glimmers” – tiny, positive moments that have the potential to bring joy or happiness and promote mental well-being.

This use of the term was coined by Deb Dana, a licensed clinical social worker who specializes in complex trauma, in her 2018 book “The Polyvagal Theory in Therapy.” According to the Polyvagal Theory, glimmers activate the parasympathetic nervous system, promoting a state of calm and relaxation. Glimmers are often described as the opposite of triggers – they are personal to each individual and can be experienced with any of the senses. They spark ease, relaxation, safety, and connection.

In the high-stakes world of entrepreneurship, where stress and anxiety are constant companions, these moments of calm can be a game-changer.

The Power of Glimmers

Entrepreneurs often face immense challenges, from financial pressures to the uncertainty of the market. As an entrepreneur, the demands and pressures of launching and running a business can become all-consuming and can take a toll on your mental health. Plus, the culture of entrepreneurship celebrates working round the clock and always putting your startup first. A founder’s self-identity is often tied to the success of their startup, and as a result, entrepreneurs often experience loneliness, depression, and anxiety as they experience the ups and downs of startup life.

As entrepreneurs strive for success, it’s helpful to recognize and embrace this concept of glimmers — and how those small, uplifting moments may be able to positively impact the well-being and mental health of entrepreneurs.

Glimmers and Entrepreneurship

Incorporating the concept of glimmers into the entrepreneurial journey can positively affect mental health, and even perhaps, business success. Yes, it’s true that a glimmer is just a small moment, but it can let you reframe and reset a situation you are going through, and that self-awareness is a critical skill for entrepreneurs to learn.

When I held the role of executive director of MIT’s Martin Trust Center for Entrepreneurship, I worked with MIT Sloan MBA alumna Kathleen Stetson to debut the Entrepreneurial Confidence and Communication (E.C.C.) program at M.I.T.’s delta v accelerator.

This was the first comprehensive program to address mental health challenges in the start-up community and is outlined in this article in HBR. Our goal was to teach student founders and their team members tools to build greater self-awareness. Stress is inevitable in start-ups, but by learning how to manage that stress, the entrepreneurs could make better choices for themselves and their start-ups.

We taught MIT student entrepreneurs the tools and benefits of self-awareness, and the results were impressive. After taking part in the program, 93% of participants felt that a self-awareness practice could help entrepreneurs create more successful businesses. By the end of the summer-long program, 88% of student entrepreneurs had independently established their own regular, weekly meditation or mindfulness practice (vs. 21% before the program), despite heavy workloads and continual critical deadlines. The data affirms that self-awareness tools are useful in managing stress — and they can be taught.

Building upon that foundation, I believe that finding glimmers and using those moments as a pause for reflection and self-awareness can create a positive mental health break for entrepreneurs that can be easily incorporated into their daily routine.

Recognizing and Cultivating Glimmers

To harness the benefits of glimmers, entrepreneurs must first recognize and appreciate these small moments of positivity. It could be a compliment from a colleague, hearing a favorite song, or enjoying a piece of chocolate. The key is to be mindful and intentional about acknowledging and savoring these positive experiences.

Create a routine that allows for the acknowledgment of glimmers – you may even want to jot it down or take a picture. Plus, the more you look for glimmers, the more you’ll find them due to frequency bias. Whether it’s starting the day with a gratitude journal or taking short breaks to appreciate achievements, these intentional practices can contribute to a more positive and resilient entrepreneurial mindset.

In an article in USA Today, Amy Morin, a licensed clinical social worker and editor-in-chief of Verywell Mind, explains, “A little joy and some relaxation can reduce your emotional distress. And when your emotions go down, your logic goes up. That means you might be able to tackle a problem from a different angle because you see things a little differently.” This is certainly a benefit that entrepreneurs should embrace.

Glimmers for Resilience

Resilience is a key trait for entrepreneurs navigating the complexities of business. Glimmers can play a role in fostering resilience by providing moments of joy, hope, and accomplishment. In times of stress, recalling these positive moments can serve as a powerful coping mechanism, helping entrepreneurs bounce back from challenges with renewed energy and determination.

Think about tying glimmers to mindfulness, or as a reminder to practice meditation or breathing exercises. All of these tools to promote self-awareness can help you reset, reframe, and build resilience.

Conclusion

In the dynamic world of entrepreneurship, prioritizing mental health is not just a personal choice but a strategic necessity – yet one that is often ignored and overlooked in the entrepreneurial win-at-all-costs culture. Glimmers offer a unique and effective way to infuse positivity into the entrepreneurial journey, contributing to improved mental well-being which can support an entrepreneur’s success.

As entrepreneurs embark on their ventures, it’s crucial to embrace the power of glimmers, recognizing them as small ways to capture joy, and strengthen a resilient and thriving entrepreneurial spirit. By fostering a positive mental health culture and incorporating intentional practices, entrepreneurs can navigate the challenges of the startup landscape with a renewed sense of purpose and well-being.

The infographic below, from Neurodiversity Education Academy, gives more detail about glimmers and triggers.

Why We Need to Redefine Start-up Culture With Positive Mental Health Habits

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Data shows self-awareness practices helped M.I.T. entrepreneurs better manage the stress of entrepreneurship.

Anxiety and depression are rampant among entrepreneurs. The stereotype of a founder — fueled by caffeine and ramen noodles, while forgoing sleep, exercise, fresh air, friends, and family in the quest for success — has been the norm for years. It has been encouraged, and even glorified, by start-up culture.

The Inc. article “The Psychological Price of Entrepreneurship” explores this topic and explains, “the same passionate dispositions that drive founders heedlessly toward success can sometimes consume them. Business owners are ‘vulnerable to the dark side of obsession.’” Yet this is not healthy or helpful for long-term success.

Compounding this problem is the start-up founder’s hesitation to show weakness or self-doubt. They feel the need to project confidence for investors and employees, despite any inner insecurities. They also tend to connect their self-worth and identity to their start-ups, which can lead to feelings of depression if their start-up fails.

We also commonly see “impostor syndrome” — an unjustified, yet pervasive feeling of self-doubt, insecurity, or fraudulence. This can slow down an otherwise well-designed new organization by curtailing its ultimate impact and potentially even its existence. The majority of entrepreneurs have experienced these feelings, but they are pushed away and not discussed.

At M.I.T., we don’t believe entrepreneurship has to be this way. The health of a start-up doesn’t need to impact founders’ mental health. We believe self-awareness and mental preparedness can enhance an entrepreneur’s abilities. This, in turn, leads to creating a more successful business. The right tools can help entrepreneurs work through stress, rather than work in spite of it. This is a real game changer for the start-up culture.

Through a new exploratory program, we’ve found data affirming that when entrepreneurs understand their thoughts, feelings, and biases, it is useful in managing stress — and this is a skill that can be taught. In fact, 93% of M.I.T. delta v entrepreneurs believe self-awareness practices can help them create more successful businesses. Here’s more about the program:

Entrepreneurial Confidence and Communication

Last year, we debuted Entrepreneurial Confidence and Communication (E.C.C.) at M.I.T.’s delta v accelerator. This is the first comprehensive program to address mental health challenges in the start-up community and builds on our previous smaller experiments in this area. Our goal was to teach 84 student founders and their team members tools to build greater self-awareness and to provide a confidential environment for venting and peer feedback. Stress is inevitable in start-ups, but by learning how to be less affected by that stress, participants could make better choices for themselves and their start-ups.

In the first six weeks of the program, participants were taught the tools of self-awareness, including meditation and mindfulness, and their benefits. What are the benefits of meditation or mindfulness? Studies abound, but two that may be of particular interest to entrepreneurs are:

  • Harvard study on practicing mindfulness meditation for at least 30 minutes a day reports that the practice can increase grey matter in the hippocampus. This is one of the more important meditation facts, since this part of the brain plays an important role in memory and learning.
  • Another study, published in Heliyon, showed that practicing mindfulness meditation for a short period of time may enhance visuospatial processing, working memory, and executive functioning.

In the second six weeks, they applied their learnings, discussing key choices entrepreneurs face — taking breaks vs. spending all your time on your start-up, working through limiting beliefs, considering others’ perspectives, and approaching challenges with fear or curiosity. Participants learned through readings, optional group meditation, and small group sessions where they could talk confidentially about challenges they were facing with people who could relate to what they were going through.

The results were significant. Participants didn’t just learn that a self-awareness practice can benefit them — they decided to implement it on a regular basis in their own lives. The overall experience had a measurable effect on their well-being.

The student entrepreneurs started becoming what we call “antifragile.” The term antifragile is used by professor and author Nassim Nicholas Taleb in his book titled Antifragile: Things That Gain from Disorder. When applying his systems analysis to humans, antifragile people are those who “grow when exposed to volatility, randomness, disorder, and stressors and love adventure, risk, and uncertainty.”

A comparison of surveys conducted before and after the program, with 60 participants responding, revealed the following results:

Learning new skills

Before the program, 65% of participants had never meditated and only 21% were regularly practicing meditation or mindfulness.

By the end of the summer, 88% of had independently established their own regular, weekly meditation or mindfulness practice, despite heavy workloads and continual critical deadlines. And, their practices were measurably impacting how they worked through stress. After the program, 53% of participants were using a deliberate technique to calm themselves when in the midst of a stressful situation.

Sharing challenges

Most founders rarely have the opportunity to talk about the challenges of entrepreneurship with someone who is knowledgeable, and whom they don’t feel the need to impress. Participants in E.C.C. reported significant value from both small group discussions and optional one-on-one sessions, which were both 100% utilized by the students. The fact that very busy students took full advantage of E.C.C.’s optional one-on-one coaching, in particular, indicates the strong value the participants realized from the program.

Credit: The Martin Trust Center for MIT Entrepreneurship

Making better choices

We hypothesized that self-awareness tools could help founders make better moment-to-moment choices in their daily entrepreneurial lives. We found that after the program, 34% of participants who had established a meditation or mindfulness practice were more confident in their communications with others. And 40% were more aware of the emotions they were feeling, choosing to go ahead and feel those emotions rather than push them away.

The data affirms that self-awareness tools are useful in managing stress — and they can be taught. These tools help you understand your automatic responses to difficult situations and to perspectives different from your own. You start to notice problems earlier and feel more personal confidence, making it is easier to treat yourself and others with respect and to be resilient in the face of entrepreneurship’s challenges.

As demonstrated in this Boston Consulting Group article “Unleashing the Power of Mindfulness in Corporations,” meditation and mindfulness have proven positive effects in other industries — and now we have data that shows they can be significantly beneficial in entrepreneurship. Integrating self-awareness into the entrepreneurial experience will help prevent burnout, encourage better mental and physical health, and create better team dynamics. It’s great for entrepreneurs, and it could be great for their start-ups’ bottom line too.

Self-awareness education can guide entrepreneurs to not only take care of themselves, but to spread these skills across the entrepreneurial ecosystem, building company cultures that are supportive of both individual and start-up success. As M.I.T.’s delta v program works to redefine the start-up culture by incorporating positive mental health practices, we want to help entrepreneurs practice the self-awareness skills necessary to nurture their own mental health and create more successful businesses.

This piece originally appeared in Thrive Global and was co-written by Kathleen Stetson.